Adding the ShareThis widget to my highly-cachable website has decreased the perceived load time of pages substantially. The CSS, JavaScript and icon are all retrieved on every page load, since they don't include HTTP headers (like Expires and Cache-Control) to suggest that they be cached, and even in the last few weeks as ShareThis has become more popular I've noticed the retrieval of resources on r.sharethis.com and w.sharethis.com taking longer.
I know you want to keep track of every single view, but I think there's a tradeoff to be made with providing a good end-user experience. I'd rather have a fast site without ShareThis than a slow one with the button.
Mark Nottingham's "Cacheability Engine" is a handy tool to investigate/evaluate behaviour, as is Yahoo!'s YSlow extension for Firebug.
